this is YOUR life, don’t waste your life with impressing people you don’t like, following their rules to make your ego feel better since the ego wants a positive feedback from the outside, and it’s insatiable, never complete. but you are not your ego. be what you really are, there is no need to complete yourself, your higher self is complete already. your life will end and when you look back, you will deeply regret, if you have missed the chance to be what you really are.
-from movie “fight club”